More Grown, More Lonely

Lei Musk
Love And Marriage
Published in
4 min readDec 2, 2021

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The more we grow up, the more lonely we are. We have gradually lost the joy of life. In the adult world, everyone endures those so-called responsibilities and obligations. Every step we take, no matter what color it is, no one would pity and sympathize. Those years of time that couldn’t be grasped have already slipped away. With emotion, only to wake up at the final end of life, only to find that it is meaningless, and the frozen picture may have become eternal.

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Loneliness is not just what we call a matter of men and women, nor is it just the coldness of friendship between friends... Loneliness is our current life.

The more we grow up, the more lonely and tired we are as we grow up. Sometimes there are even meaningless thoughts, but I don’t know how to change them.

Life, the more tired, the more confused, the more difficult it is to find a job, the difficult to manage friendships, the fragile feelings, and the beautiful things you fantasize about may be shattered in the blink of an eye.

I am full of confusion about life, myself, and even the world. The future, going farther and farther, but getting more and more lonely.

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After adulthood, we no longer have the freedom of childhood. We must always be responsible for what we do. Every step we take has attracted more people’s attention.

Life is no longer entirely ours, but we have to step by step. Go ahead with weight.

Whether you are comfortable or complain, you can only bear it silently, learn to change yourself, learn to adapt to the environment, and strive to become the strongest person in life.

Perhaps you can make yourself a little more free and less lonely.

Gradually, friends have lost contact, colleagues have more competition, and life has been mixed with a lot of hypocrisy... but we are unable to change.

After adulthood, we all basically have our own home. All the hard work and hard work, and the slogans we shout are for the family, for the children, no longer for our so-called ideals, dreams, and ultimately will be defeated by reality, and cruelty is no longer the experience of life, more like the end of life.

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The older you grow up, the more lonely you are, and the more confused you are. Drinking in the past may have been out of interest, but now drinking may be a response to the so-called sorrow. The heart is not in place, can no longer find, the lost color has become a blank.

Your own way, your own choice, with tears in your eyes, you have to go on crawling, and no one will be willing to see the end. No one’s life will be perfect. Only by working hard on your own, you may be able to find your own rhythm, but it will never be the kind of life you want.

If we say that time can be turned back, I think many of us will choose to go back to childhood, but the most regrettable thing in this world is that there is no if, life can be repeated, but life is only once. I think this may be what we have to learn to face things. Time is passing, and the times are developing.

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The night is late, but there is no sleep. Life requires us to work hard to continue. In this prosperous world, adult life has become more and more complicated, and it is also more and more difficult to grasp.

Is it because of the change of times or the inability to live in this prosperous world? In the age of innocence, we can only keep up with the pace of life if we keep running.

Perhaps it is not ourselves, nor family, nor friends, but the so-called life that we owe.

Tomorrow and tomorrow, there are so many tomorrows.

Let go by yourself, life is always wonderful. The future is always waiting there, and you and I will embrace it.

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