My girlfriend wants me to cut ties with my ex-wife’s child. What should I do?
Should I break up with my selfish girlfriend?
I am divorced and my child is only 6 years old and raised by my ex-wife. I pay child support and tuition every month on time.
My current girlfriend doesn’t like my contact with my ex-wife’s child very much. Although she is also divorced and has a girl, she will need me to take care of her child together in the future, but she is very disgusted with my contact with my son.
She even asked me to cut ties with my child so that the two of us could go on in harmony. I miss my son very much when I don’t usually see my son.
But my girlfriend limits the number of times I see my son, only three times a year. And every time I go to see my son, I have to bring my girlfriend to prevent me from buying expensive gifts for my son. I am very confused.
I don’t know how to handle this relationship, because my current girlfriend is also very nice to me, and we have no other problems getting along with each other. I am also nice to her daughter and her.
She also wanted to have a baby with me, but she just wouldn’t accept my ex-wife’s baby. I don’t want to be a heartless father, and I don’t want to lose a second hard-earned relationship.
The above is self-reported by netizens.
Suggestion:
Your girlfriend is so selfish. Why should she ask you to cut ties with your son? She has a character problem. I think you better be cautious about a woman who cannot accept your child.
Not every woman is so selfish. She is too selfish. She is still a mother and has a child herself. Your child’s parents are divorced, and you are not allowed to see him. This is too ruthless. You can’t do anything about her before marriage now, and you have no right to speak at home after marriage.
In order to raise other people’s children, don’t want your own son. Only fools do this. When you are old and your children grow up, when other people’s children sweep you out of the house, you will remember that you are ashamed of your own son, but it’s too late. At that time, your son no longer needs his father.
It is your right to see your own son, and you must defend it.
So if she insists on cutting you off from your previous child, you should quickly break up and find a kind woman. Only a kind woman can be reasonable and live a happy life. A selfish and vicious woman will always find all kinds of things to harm others and take advantage of herself. Except for herself, she has no sincerity for anyone. Marrying such a woman, there is no peace in the family. Either implicate parents and relatives to be useless together, or they will have to leave sooner or later. She’s being nice to you now, all in disguise, just for you to raise her daughter.
